I thought I might die in that cubicle, and that's when I decided to make some changes. I am now self employed. I am an expert witness in court (don't tell anyone), a child custody evaluator (for real, don't tell anyone), an author (tell everyone), a motivational speaker (tell everyone) a mom (2 cutie pies), a wife, a mompreneur, a taxi, a motivational speaker, a skincare consultant (hello good skin and tax write offs), a non-profit director (in all my spare time) a lover of spas and massages and at times "the fit hits the shan" in my life ... but it's mine, and there is beauty in that.